Update....I took my bike to my dealer today for 12k service and check over from my big trip.Since this sounds like it has been going on a couple years has anyone spoke to a dealer about it ?
I was able to show them my "hot start rattle"....they suggested I leave it with them overnight so they can do hot and cold oil pressure checks....and so that they can start a file to document what's happening with my bike....they gave me a new V-strom to take home.
This is how a dealer should do things! I am lucky to have them in my corner!
Stay tuned!